pull down to refresh

Yes, the architecture of apps is very wtf as a practical matter.
Remember that a fake twitter demo was the first client, and it became the "current thing". No logic or reason behind it, and no attempt to be better at any particular thing, just a mindless protest at centralized platforms.
Did you know that every DM you send is making your key weaker too? Most clients are still using NIP04 and now those keys are compromised if users sent a lot of DMs.
Reality has started to set in with at least a small contingent of devs that usability and scale must be considered. This hard work will likely lead to nostr winter in my estimation, as the sugar rush of useless clients fades.
Nostr's real potential is in the projects you haven't heard of yet, contribute to those and tooling.
Perfect opportunity for full RBF transactions. My node is running full RBF. Peter Todd's node is running full RBF. If your tx is stuck and you need to increase the fee so it'll get through, connect to one of our nodes so a miner running full RBF might see it.